Thursday, February 14, 2008

Chums!!!



Yeah I know its Valentines Day today but I am going to write about friends…I wanted to write this for quite some time and somehow realized today is the right day to do it...my fav talk show made me write it today……so here I go…

It was 1.5 yrs back, during a cousin’s wedding when I met a guy who expected me to guess who he was, and if not that, atleast try to recall abt him…and I cudnt...and he was introduced to me as a childhood frnd of mine, and I was told that we lost touch around 15-16 yrs back! Looong time…but before that, we had reportedly wrestled together, besides other games kids of our age play! And since then, we’ve been the best of friends…again!

My wedding is 1 yr old now and I don’t think anything has changed between him n me…atleast from my end… no matter how much he doubted me on this…but today, after listening to my fav talk-show, which undoubtedly discussed about friends today, I realized he has changed…he dsnt call me dat often…he has to think of a good time to call…is it true that my marital status is making him think of all this? Will I also think the same once he’s married…will I also have to think twice before calling him, just like he does? I mean, I feel free to bug him anytime of the day, but will I be able to do it once he’s married too?

Valentine’s Day was a time for introspection for me…he will read it today…may be he’ll think too…may be he wont…may be he knows the answer!
Sweety

5 other zodiacs scribbled:

Tarun said...

Wel datz true dat i avoid callin u up wn i think u'd b vd ur husband...bt datz jz cz i dnt wanna dstrb u gyz knowin d fct dat e1 u get 2 spnd a li'l tym vd him n also 4 d rzn dat he bein a husband may nt lyk his wife gettin calz frm her fren @ odd times...
bt othr dan dis callin issue n sm more alike issues...evrythinz still d same...
...so u c i ws right wn i tld u ds fact dat marriage atleas changes smthings if nt evrythin...got dat MACHLI....:)

ginnie said...

Awwww that was sweet, but guess the show made me realize that situations might change initialy but friends will stay as long as they wanna:) cheers babe I like

Priya said...

:) u think as much as i do...
.i.e a lot :p

drdeepanjali_sehgal said...

well thts true , but i think its not the frequency of calling tht makes u decide who ur friend is or not . a person if ur friend even if is no contact with u will be near u in ur time of need ; n i think in the end tht is wat counts . neways i think ur friend read u wrote n ur job has been done . all the best n congratulations to u for tht fact tht u hv a good heart to speak out the truth .

the-sagittarian-blogger said...

Hi Dr Sehgal, thnx a lot for dropping by n i agree with wat u mentioned above. About the calling part, dat was just one example of the changes I hv noticed. Yes, he has read it and I know my truth was conveyed :)

Appreciated you commenting on my truth. Many thnx!